Hi, it’s Robyn Firtel and I want to know:
Do you find yourself repeating a similar cycle with your partner, or the same pattern repeated with each relationship? Do you feel walled off, and can’t get out of this place of desperation of trying to change the person you’re with?
Are you at the point where you feel you’ve tried everything—including therapy—yet still feel disappointed and needy because you can’t make your relationship, or any relationship, work?
Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, your efforts are never enough when it comes to loving someone and being loved back?
Do you tend to pick partners who don’t communicate and wall you off over and over again?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re most likely living with a love addiction… But you also probably know it’s time for something to really change. You don’t want to be “there” anymore. Trust me, I know what it feels like to be there – at one point in my life, I was you – but I also know that it’s possible to get to the other side of pain and desperation and to live a life free from love addiction.
For over 17 years I’ve helped people living with a love addiction achieve recovery, and find a path to emotional maturity and complete transformation in their relationships. Having specialized in Post Induction Therapy, which treats codependency, addiction, trauma and relationship issues, not only have I experienced first hand the power of the principles I’m going to teach you, but I’ve also guided hundreds of people from all walks of life to find their own freedom and enjoy healthy, loving relationships.
For years I have had people coming up to me asking:
How do I deal with this painful, compulsive and addictive behavior that I don’t want in my life anymore?
And, you see, the thing is, there is a lot of misinformation out there about love addiction: what it is, what causes it and how to truly overcome it. Many people I’ve talked to believe in these 8 MYTHS about love addiction:
MYTH #1
A partner causes love addiction and if you find a new partner you won’t be love addicted.
MYTH #2
Love addiction happens to people who are too sensitive or read too many romance novels.
MYTH #3
Love means intensity and dependency.
MYTH #4
Regular therapy or reading a book can treat the root cause of the symptoms.
MYTH #5
Addiction is something you should snap out of or grow out of.
MYTH #6
Changing the other person, or changing yourself, will make the relationship different.
MYTH #7
If I love the person enough or if I explain myself in the right way, or if I'm smarter, better looking, or have more money, then I will be loved in the way that I want to be loved and our lives will work and be perfect.
MYTH #8
When I find the right partner, then I will be complete.
I’m here to tell you that ALL OF THESE ARE JUST MYTHS.
I’m also here to tell you something you already know deep down inside of you… It’s time.
It’s time for you to take as stand for yourself and truly know that you are valuable; it’s time for you to be at that place where you’re able to love and receive love freely; and it’s time for you to finally reach the emotional maturity you’ve always wanted, and to be in healthy and mature relationships. So… are you ready? Because I am.
THAT’S WHY I CREATED OVERCOMING LOVE ADDICTION
An online program where you’ll find system that addresses core issues at the heart of love addiction, teaching you how to be an emotionally mature adult:
- An adult who is able to train your own unconscious mind to not go into the wounded stages of your experiences as a child
- An adult who can connect with your inner self and access a power greater than yourself
- An adult who is free to live a life of true, healthy and mature love
I created Overcoming Love Addiction for you – so you can find the freedom you’ve been dreaming of.
Because you don’t need more useless information you don’t know what to do with. What you really need is a structured system that will coach and guide you from where you’re at – step-by-step – all the way to the end, where you’ll find yourself enjoying a life filled with healthy and mature relationships.
This is what Overcoming Love Addiction can do for you – and it works. I’ll tell you exactly why, but first, let’s talk about…
WHY OTHER PROGAMS DON’T WORK
In regular therapy, it’s your therapist who is trying to help you to not love obsessively and to relieve the pain that comes from your past and current relationships. But that poses a profound problem because the real power to change doesn’t come from your therapist… it comes from the person who has the power of choice; and that person is YOU.
When you find yourself love addicted, while you might intellectually and rationally understand that your behavior or compulsion is irrational, your power of choice is hindered by your love addiction and you really can’t stop. You know something is wrong, but you find yourself unable to do what you know is right.
The problem is that regular therapy only allows us to access 20 percent of the conscious brain. What you really need is treatment that can reach your unconscious brain; treatment that can offer you real and practical tools to help you mature, think and live like a healthy adult. That’s where my program comes in.
Nothing comes close to the power & IMPACT of my model
Overcoming Love Addiction is a powerful model that focuses on teaching you how to continually access your unconscious brain and reprogram yourself from the inside out. It’s effective because it’s based on a formula that works, and it doesn’t just give you information – it offers you precise and practical step-by-step instructions and guidance.
Just see what others have to say about
how this process has helped their lives:
“I was in relationships over and over again with men who would be amazing in the beginning, but as time went on they refused to commit and would push me away. I saw a healer, went to three therapists, and read all kinds of books. Nothing worked until I met Robyn. I loved every part of this process even when things got painful. I am now in a very healthy loving relationship not only with myself but with my fiancé as well.”
~ Jessica F
“Probably the best use of my money and time. We have three generations of family members that have seen Robyn, and it has literally changed us into a functional family. I learned how to communicate and how to listen. I learned some real boundaries and how to be helpful instead of hurtful. I can actually say that it was a life altering experience.”
~ Matthew D
HOW THE PROGRAM WORKS
Overcoming Love Addiction provides a combination of compelling videos, audios and practical assignments where you’ll discover exactly how to:
- Identify the underlying causes of your love addiction.
- Value yourself from within – for who you truly are.
- Be intimate with others using healthy boundaries while still being vulnerable.
- Learn to get your needs and wants met within a mature relationship.
- Be comfortable with yourself and accountable for your impact on others.
Every module is designed to specifically target each of the five core issues at the cause of love addiction: self-worth, boundaries, reality, needs/wants and moderation.
SELF-WORTH
You’ll begin the program by understanding what I call the Functional Adult Relationship Model, which is the foundation for learning to esteem yourself from within. You’ll be able to reverse the trauma that you experienced as a child, learn to create better relationships and wake up the parts of you that are unconscious – getting to the nature of who you truly are.
BOUNDARIES
You’ll learn what healthy boundaries are, the different types of boundaries that you can set and why they’re each so important to have as part of your life. You’ll also be able to understand how to connect self-worth and boundaries, and how to recognize and protect yourself in a mature way when your boundaries are being violated.
REALITY
As you continue to go deeper into who you are, you’ll learn to identify reality and discover how it relates to certain positions that make you live your life as if you are not valuable and important. You’ll gain a new perspective on how to deal with your emotions and learn how to take responsibility for your own life by creating your own reality.
NEEDS/WANTS
You’ll also learn how to efficiently develop your interdependence skills – skills that are vital for building a relationship of self-care and learning how to ask for what you need and want from your partner.
MODERATION
Finally, you’ll learn how to truly live a life of happy and successful moderation; first, understanding the extremes of moderation, and then, learning to figure out how to create a relationship built in moderation. As you apply what you learn, you’ll regain control of your life and find yourself standing where you’ve always wanted to be.
The modules include videos where I personally provide you with instruction and guidance to understand the principles and practices you’ll be learning. At the end of each segment, you’ll find homework assignments that’ll allow you to apply this knowledge in your own life. You’ll also have accompanying audios in case you want to listen in your car or on the go.
TO GET YOU STARTED TOWARDS YOUR JOURNEY TO A HEALTHIER YOU – I’VE INCLUDED THREE LIMITED TIME BONUSES IF YOU SIGN UP NOW!
BONUS 1: Six Group Q&A Calls
With your program peers, this is your opportunity to get those pressing questions answered, and to work through some of the emotions that may come up as you go through the training. Can’t make a call live? You will be able to access those calls in your course training archive.
BONUS 2: Membership in our Facebook Community
In your community you can ask questions, share your experiences, and connect with fellow peers. I’ll be in the community on a regular basis to make sure you’re supported.
BONUS 3: Your 911 Connection
There’s going to be times when you’re going to feel as if you’ve reached your limit; you’ll be hurting, feeling withdrawal and needing a helping hand to help keep you on the wagon. So, for those times you’re in crisis mode, I’ve included a 911 audio you can keep with you (as well as a companion PDF) to help you keep going and working through what may be holding you back!
Click on the button to get started today.
There is a way out, and there is a future for you – one that’s filled with the warm, giving and healthy love you so truly desire… And I know I can help you get there.
All you have to do is get started today, and, together, we’ll get you over your love addiction and into a life where you have a strong, loving relationship with yourself and are thus able to have mature and healthy relationship with others.
Today is the day to begin making the dream a reality.
Thanks for your time and I look forward to being in touch – and working with you personally – soon! Be sure to click on the link below to get started now.
About Robyn Firtel
San Diego therapist Robyn Firtel is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist and is also a certified Parenting Expert. She has continued her education by being trained by Pia Mellody. She specializes in Post Induction Therapy, which treats codependency, addiction, trauma, and relationships.
Robyn graduated with honors from University of California, Irvine with a Bachelor of Arts in Social Ecology. Her post-graduate studies continued at the University of Humanistic Studies where she earned a Masters of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy. She completed internships at several different facilities which enabled her to have a varied experience within the field. She worked as a primary counselor doing intensive therapy with children, adults, and families and worked with a team of psychiatrists and psychologists on long-term treatment planning.
Currently, Robyn has a thriving private practice that includes individual as well as group therapy. She teaches workshops and intensives for couples and individuals.